Thursday, September 22, 2011

Twenty-Seven

Growing up I had some rough years.

Ages 11 and 12 were extremely awkward and pretty lonely.
Still not quite sure how I survived through 15 and 16.
20 - 21 is sort of hazy and mostly miserable.  

Twenty-Seven was. a. rough. year.

Its been a big ‘transition’ year to say the least, except that the word transition implies change and I haven’t changed anything. At all. Same partner, same house, same job, same desk, same bus route, same old brown shoes.

I had passed the four year mark. Four years is how long I can talk myself into staying in any one place. After that I get antsy again, start feeling the urge to keep moving. Jann Arden’s Where No One Knows Me starts playing on repeat in my head. But moving on was no longer an option and I was struggling with being ‘settled’. And then someone said to me, “Maybe not changing is the biggest change of all.” Yeah. Think about that. So I have been.

A few excerpts (or highlights if you will) of 27:

  • An extremely important person in my life passed away. It took a long time to process.
  • I had my very own stalker (again), who refused for almost a year to get bored and move on. With a heaping dose of harrassment and even a death threat or two thrown in for good measure.
  • My depression kept getting worse and worse, even though I tried to stay on top of it. (In my experience with depression I have found that it is cyclical, but this slump just went on and on and on.) Whine and Wines, exercise, going back to a counsellor regularly, painting the house… nothing helped. And six months of crippling depression really takes a toll on my body, my relationships, my social life, my work, everything!
  • I had bizarre and troublesome health concerns.
  • I had to cut out coffee.
(And, although our wedding was a labour of love, and beautiful, and such a my-heart-is-so-full-I'm-crying joyful event, I struggled with it. Because it was also arduous, and frustrating, and stressful, and time-consuming, and money-consuming.)  

Yesterday I was another year older and got to put all that behind me. And twenty-seven ended on a positive note. I have learned some valuable lessons and important things about myself. I have a wonderful, loving, and incredibly patient husband. I have some changes and a new role to look forward to at work. I’m going back to school in my spare time. And I think I know what I want in life. I’m looking forward to 28.        

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Sweatin' from the Kung-Pow!

Why do I do this to myself! I had another pita at lunch today. Now I get to spend the next four hours in agony at my desk. And my desk partner and I never did make it to "openly farting in front of each other" status.

Back when I was in university I used to eat pitas on a daily basis. I had a job at a pita place. I got the job because I was there every day eating pitas anyways.

I just can't resist their gooey deliciousness and when I have an extra six bucks I'll buy myself a pita for lunch as a "treat." I don't know why.


Could you say no to that? I didn't think so.

FTB - this is the reference I was making: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJIZo9DA-5g 

Monday, September 12, 2011

US Airways Update:

To my surprise, I actually got a letter back! Good thing too because if not I was going to get David Thorne on the case...

"Thank you for contacting Customer Relations. We appreciate hearing from our customers and having an opportunity to address their concerns.

I'm sorry your flight was canceled from Lihue to Phoenix. In addition, I regret you were not provided with additional information concerning the flight’s cancellation prior to your arrival to the Lihue airport. I understand you were displeased with the meal vouchers provided. These vouchers may not cover the entire meal expense; however, meal vouchers are issued to off set meal costs.


I would also like to apologize for the poor customer service you received and how each situation was handled. Our customers expect and deserve service that is helpful, friendly and knowledgeable. Please be assured that your concerns have been documented and forwarded to the appropriate Managers to serve as a learning tool on how we can improve our service.

I recognize this flight’s cancellation caused you a major inconvenience. To convey our apologies and regain your confidence, we have authorized two $100.00 Electronic Travel With Us Voucher(s)

Based on your comments, we could have done a better job of assisting you, and I assure you the necessary steps will be taken to help prevent a recurrence. We know that you have many choices when it comes to traveling, and we thank you for choosing US Airways."

So there it is. $200 is not a whole lot when it comes to air travel but at least its something. Its the first genuine apology and an attempt to make it right. I'm satisfied.

Friday, September 09, 2011

Damn The Man!

If I had to choose one motto that I live my life by (other than "don't pee into the wind") I think it would be "the less you have, the less you need."

I still use bunny ears for my television. I have had my good old reliable antenna for well over a decade now, packing them up with whatever TV I had at the moment and taking them with me. Paying an extra fifty bucks a month for cable so I can watch reruns of Tool Time just never seemed worth it to me. With my bunny ears I have pretty much gotten all the TV that I need - the News, the Simpsons, the Thursday and Sunday night line-ups, and movies on the weekend. And these days if there is anything special we want to watch, we just download it or watch it online.

But for the last few months, the airwaves have been increasingly inundated with warnings of the switch to digital. I was told countless times this summer that as of Aug 31st I would have to say goodbye to my loyal rabbit ears and finally buy in to what the cable companies have been aggressively trying to sell me if I wanted to watch any TV. at all. ever again! dun dun dun......

I am happy to say that the CRTC's scare compaign did not shake my good faith in my simple antenna. Or I didn't care enough to be bothered by it. Well, we turned the TV on when we got back from our trip, did a bit of jimmying and some minor adjusting, and lo and behold, we still had free television! 

The channels are different but they were easy enough to find. We don't get Access anymore but now we get OMNI which seems like a fair trade. CBC is gone but instead we get this weird channel that only plays old shows, so I get to revisit my youth by watching Alf again! And see The Waltons for my first time ever. So there's that. Still get City TV and Global so my line-ups are intact. And even one more channel, which I can't recall at the moment. The best part is the new channels are HD now or something because the sound and picture is fantastic!

So there, take that CRTC!

Wednesday, September 07, 2011

US Airways (aka The Crappiest Airline Ever)

This is the complaint letter I wrote to US Airways today. Like they even give a damn.


To whom it may concern:

My husband and I were booked to fly US Airways on our way home from our honeymoon this past weekend, and I now have the unfortunate responsibility of reporting our absolutely terrible experience and the extremely off-putting ‘customer service’ we received on our latest flight. I will not be naming names as I understand that these things happen and are sometimes out of one’s own control, but this situation needs to be addressed by your company.
We were scheduled to fly from Lihue to Phoenix on US Airways Flight Number 47, at 10 p.m. on Sunday September 4th. We double-checked the flight status that afternoon and got to the check-in counter at the airport 7 p.m. after checking out of our resort and returning our rental car - only to find out from the desk agent that our flight that night had been cancelled. We had not been notified and had been standing in line for at least twenty minutes without any notification at the airport or by a US Airways agent. We therefore had absolutely no time to make alternative plans. We were offered another flight on Tuesday night, 48 hours later than our original return date. That would not do.
    The counter attendants were unapologetic, as was the agent I immediately called on the phone, and entirely unenthusiastic, showing no initiative in helping us to find other arrangements. The desk agent told us we had to phone the customer service line, the customer service agent on the phone told us we had to get help from someone at the desk. Finally after much persuading, and confiding to the agent that I would probably lose my job if I did not get a flight that would get me back to the mainland by Tuesday, she found a Hawaiian Air flight out of Lihue at 9 p.m. Unfortunately, it took her until 8:45 (almost two hours on the phone with her) to find that flight and it had closed by that time. This was actually a blessing in disguise because we would have found ourselves stranded again - she had booked us on a return to Vancouver, when our final destination was supposed to be Calgary. We then had to call back and talk to another agent.
      We were informed there was nothing that could be done. Apparently, according to the US agent, no airline had any flights out of Lihue, or Honolulu, or any of the other islands we could transfer to or from for at least 24 hours. As you can imagine I found this quite hard to believe. However, it was late and we were tired. We booked Flight # 47 for the following evening and were told we would be put up by the Marriot for the night and handed $5 meal vouchers.
        I am not sure where the good folks at US Airways eat their meals, but five dollars will not get you a bottle of water in Kauai. Especially not at the Marriot. When I explained that we were newlyweds and did not have the money it would cost to stay for another 24 hours, at least, on the island and that five dollars is a coffee not a meal, again they shook their heads unapologetically and said that there was nothing they could do to help us out.
          On the flight the following night, we were a bunch of haggard travelers sandwiched on to an old jalopy of a flight, I think this airplane was around before I was. We were all jammed on to a trans-oceanic flight without even room for our luggage much less our knees. We were still charged for baggage. The desk agent was belligerent and asked if we had paid for our baggage yesterday before our flight was cancelled. Of course we said no and were informed in a tone that we were still expected to pay the extra fees. We received beverage service once in six hours and garbage pick-up only at the end of the trip and there was no in-flight entertainment. The flight attendants were rude and snappy. Upon our exiting the plane she said and I quote, "Have a nice day… Or not..." Completely unacceptable. However, at this point I just wanted off the plane.
            We stopped at the US Airways customer service desk in the terminal between transfers, bedraggled and weary, to ask for a band-aid. We could over-hear the agent there was obviously having a personal phone conversation and did not even put the phone down to answer us. She simply said no and continued on with her conversation.
              At each turn, your staff showed no initiative, no accountability, no desire to provide adequate or even acceptable customer service, and no attempt to make it right. Myself, my husband, and our families are frequent travelers and we often choose US Airways. I hope that my concerns are taken into consideration and we are able to find some resolution to these issues. In these hard times one would think that a company would understand the value of retaining loyal customers.

              Sincerely,

              *Lethal Lizzie*

              P.S. Out of your list of options on your complaint form (ex. desk agents, phone agents, amenities, baggage, canceled flight, flight attendants, international travel) I had to select "Other/ Miscellaneous" since you did not have an "All of the Above" option.